Finding Love in 3 weeks By; Success Enai Blessing

                   Finding Love in 3 weeks

By; Success Enai Blessing

He who finds a wife, findeth a good thing Despite the struggles of the NYSC orientation camp, the unending parade, shouts by soldiers, the pain of the man o' war drill, the food that is never enough and the blasting trumpet sound interrupting our very short sleep, NYSC orientation camp is still a place people build relationships. People get to see and interact with soldiers for the first time, meet people of different cultures and traditions, make new friends and for some 'hook up'. Then the journey of taking numbers, eating at mammy market together, keeping seats, holding hands, stealing glances during parade and enjoying endless chats begins. In the midst of 'bonding ' the question 'Will three weeks be enough to find love arises.

     We get twenty one days of building bonds with this 'special' person. We have different priorities and opinions when it comes to the length of our relationship and we have our individual differences in our desires, communication flow and many other

Relationship expectations.

People have differents opinions, for some it is impossible because it is in a confined area for 3weeks, for many others it is possible because people even fall in love at first sight and you get to see the person you are interested in at different situations. You see them without make up, you see them deal with pressure and stress, you see them get involved in team work and so on. In Psychology, there is a law that says that it is possible to build a connection with somebody when you are close to the person therefore, if you are going to camp and you intend to find love, there is hope for you. There are several testimonies of people who met in camp, got maried and are enjoying the marriage. This could inspire you, I'll be giving a few tips to help you find that special person within the confines of an orientation camp.

1. Be Yourself: You cannot overemphasize this as no one wants a person who is not real. It gives you peace when you are comfortable with who you are.

2. Know what you want, a wise man once said "when the purpose of a thing is not known abuse is inevitable.

3. Seek compatibility: Relationship goes beyond the physical attractions and the long talks. Look out for similar goals and interests.

4. Encourage Communication: Every relationship thrives with communication. It helps you get into a deeper connection with your partner. Do not take this for granted.

5. Dont push, don't rush: Nobody likes a desperate person, don't push too hard. Remember you won't lose what is meant for you.

   Love is deep, fulfilling and knows no barriers so you can explore, but if you do not get expectations met at the camp, there is no need to worry, it is never to late. Echoing the words of a songwriter, you find love in the craziest places.