LOVE AT FIRST SIGHT, HOW TRUE? By; David O. Kelvin

        LOVE AT FIRST SIGHT, HOW TRUE? 

By; David O. Kelvin


It's very true, opinions has drawn the tin line to say; There's indeed love at first sight. Permit me, I speak not as a love doc but as one who has weighed the scale balance, seen nothing of such exist. There's nothing like "Love at first sight". Its beyond a scam. It's a phrase used more by many who would take advantage of your emotional loopholes.

I have come to agree with the terms that: Those who have little or no chance about love fall for the myth, "Love at first sight", Whatever and however you see a thing from whichever perspective, same is how you tend to relate with it. Love at first sight is a myth and nothing more.

Love is not a thing, feeling, neither is it an emotion especially that special thing you feel for an opposite sex, it is beyond that. Love is a reality for every mortal to express. Love is an expression of affection towards a thing, place or person, that is expressed through words, attention and revealed by time. The above definition gives a complete put together of what love really means. To conclude, the above definition ends with, love is revealed by time. This goes to mean, Genuine love is revealed by time. Quack love is also time revealing.

I stand to frown on the myth, Love at first sight. You can like someone at first sight, you can be attracted to someone or a thing at first sight. Love does not unfolds its potential at first sight, its a gradual process. It takes time.

Love is a process. Don't be fooled. If all you want is a cozy body to satisfy your emotional excesses then you could fall for the lies of Love at first sight. But if the opposite is thy plea then you must be ready to follow the path towards finding true love which does not always ends at several rounds of sex.

I conclude with this, Love is a choice, don't be forced into it. Love is a responsibility not an activity. Love is not automatic, allow it grow. Don't be fooled, the next a mortal walks up to you with the myth, "I loved you the very day I set my eyes on you", tell such a person, You are watching, watching, fore time will reveal the contents of the persons love, Sex or Friendship.