Keeping MR RIGHT

KEEPING MR RIGHT

By; Susan George

Finding the perfect guy is never easy, it can even be more difficult to keep or maintain a strong and perfect relationship with Mr. Right. For any relationship to work out you need to put in so much efforts. But most times no matter how much effort, sex styles, food, gifts, respect etc you give to your man, if he doesn't want to stay with you, He won't stay. Below are few tips in keeping Mr Right.

1) Honesty /truth:-
   Honesty is one of the major keys to keeping your man. As a wife you have to be honest that is, saying the truth always despite how the situation may seem.  Your partner should be able to trust you at any point in time, and you should also learn to trust your man even when you feel or know he's lying. Never you build your relationship with deceit, Lies etc.

(2) Be appreciative :-
     One of the easiest ways to lose your man is to take him for granted. Never compare your man with your friends husband, never try to change him, love him simply for who he is.  Appreciate and support him no matter what happens,  instead of nagging and throwing insults on him for the things he cannot do. When you appreciate his little efforts, it motivates and brings out the best in him. By so doing you help him achieve his dreams.

(3) Be polite in your words/respect :-
      Learn to respond to every word with kindness even when you disagree or in an argument.  When offering a criticism or correction, be gentle about it. Have common courtesy, that is listening and not interrupting him when he is talking, asking for help and not demanding for help. Learn to say "excuse me" " I'm sorry "please", "thank you " at every appropriate time. By so doing there will be mutual respect amongst the both of you.

(4) Give him space :-
      Men are different from women when it comes to space. Most men get annoyed or easily irritated when they do not get some time alone by themselves. Give each other space and you will see sweet and more romantic your love will be.

(5) Be a loyal friend and have a good sense of humor :-
       A couple who shares a good relationship as friends will maintain a stronger romantic relationship. It is important to be a good friend as well as an understanding romantic partner. Men usually find a woman with a great sense of humor very attractive. The ability to laugh off life's little problems and seeing things in a positive light is what men look for in a woman. And Please know when to laugh and when not to.

(6) Learn his love language :-
       All men are not enthralled by the same stuff. Some love public display of affection and alot of touching and body contact, another may just want to keep hearing how much you love and appreciate him while frequently a tiny gift would always awe another. Find out what your man loves and love him the way he wants to be loved.

(7) Be attractive :-
     Ladies this is very very important, try to package yourself by looking good and neat.  You mustn't wear an expensive or too short clothes before a man admires you. Be a charmer and a graceful woman who is the cynosure of everyone's attention. Make him feel lucky and proud to have you.

(8) Sometimes take the lead in bed:-
       Do not punish your man with sex. Satisfy him sexually as sex is so important to men. Do not be too timid to initiate sex. Make your sex life fun. Apply some naughty nibbles, here and there and give him good kisses. As they will say "great kisses makes great lovers".

(9) Be a great cook:-
       Food truly is the best way to a man's heart. He May say he doesn't care if you know how to cook or not.  Please try to make a sumptuous meal and you will see how much he will love you.

(10) Add some fun :-
     Be playful, and not to rigid or afraid to make a mess when you play. Play games, share stories but do not run down your own family before your man. Be creative and set a day aside for just the both of you to bond and dates each other.

(11) Learning and prayers :-
    Always learn new things (positive)and improve upon the person you are. By so doing he will find you more attractive and irresistible. Never forget to pray.  Put God first over everything, because only through the grace of God can a relationship last forever.
    Alot of ladies practised all of these listed above but were still dumped, divorced, beaten, cheated on or even worse betrayed. As they say " if there is a man to pray, there is a God to answer". Only God's grace through prayers can keep a man faithful in a relationship.