Mr.Nice Guy

Mr. Nice Guy

By; Dennis Chimaobi

Mr. Nice Guy, idle or not, will want to think about his life and future ambitions, just to ensure a greater end, intentionally he ignores the swift thought of relationship that ride in and out his subtle mind. Most repeatedly, relationship appears to be his most unresolved issues or challenges. There is a struggle between his temporary desire for a relationship and his standard principle of staying single till the day of marriage.

And then this lady he saw very fascinating, astonishing and beautiful, placed him in a state of delima. He decided to take into consideration this lady's awesome nature and discovered that, even with her ugly sides (which were minimal to him), she is the ONE!!! He was just so convinced that she fits into every plan for life. Whatsoever his dream plans are for the future, he ensures that she has a place she can fit in. Communication was strong, love was bonding, his bad habits were automatically drifting as he pressed towards being that "Mr. Nice Guy" that she can love.

Intimacy became stronger as they started having hang outs that will blow minds of friends. Feelings were mutual, both of them could relate with the mystery of how they feel for each other without voicing it out. They got along so fast, even though they had been friends some few years before love time.

At some point in Friendship, he revealed his future ambitions as regards relationship. He discovered from her, that she had some fears to fight. Woah! That sounds like what he wanted as regards to his principles for relationship. At the same time, he does not want to loose her to his unknown competitors. In a bid to seek her approval to be loved and respected, he played the nice guy role, assuming he should be regarded for respecting the woman he so much wants to be with rest of his life, and didn't ask her out. Indeed, hoping for the day she would get over her fears and be ready to accept him.

Mr. Nice Guy did not push for what he wanted. Why? Was it because he was scared to be called a pest and maybe loose her at the end, or he was too shy to ask her out (he has never asked a girl out)? Was he just too confident about her sticking around? Who actually has fears to deal with?