3 SIGNS YOUR RELATIONSHIP ISN’T WORKING
Salako Moriam Bolanle
A relationship is naturally craved by both sexes. Once you see a person you like, the natural instinct takes over to want to make the person theirs. The males have a natural predisposition to hunt and possess while the females are more coy and elusive. This chase continues between the hunter (the man) and the prey (the woman) until the prey is caught. Sometimes we hold tight to a relationship due to the love we have for them.
No one likes a relationship to end but not all relationships are meant to end in marriage. A broken relationship is better than a broken marriage.
There are three signs you can identify that shows that your relationship isn’t working and is headed for the rocks.
They are:
Your partner is always too busy:
When the person you are dating doesn’t seem to have your time anymore then it is obvious that your relationship isn’t working as it should. When you keep making appointments that never pull through, the person is always involved suddenly in activities that he/she were never involved before then the relationship isn’t working.
Lack of communication:
When you both lack adequate communication it shows that something is wrong. Especially when you are the only one that calls all the time. And more than half of the time the person would not pick up the call or when the call is picked, he/she will give a quick excuse and drop the call. And when you are on a call you barely have anything to say to each other. You do more of the talking and the person barely listens or sounds bored on the phone with the conservation. This is another sign that your relationship isn’t working.
Your partner becomes aggressive and starts fault-finding:
When your partner changes from that sweet, caring and understanding person to an aggressive person suddenly, it is time to be watchful. When whatever you do he/she becomes angry and begins to look for faults, twisting your words to make it look like you are the bad person it means something is seriously wrong. This mostly happens when your partner is cheating or has found someone else.
These three signs shows that your relationship isn’t working. Everyone deserves to be happy. Once your partner isn’t treating you the right way, it is best to take note of it. It is either you address it to know the reason behind your partners change, to determine whether there is a solution or you take a walk out of the relationship before your mental health is damaged.
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