RELATIONSHIP: SEX AND MONEY

               [Free Advice To All BF/GF)

By: Abdulhameed Abdur-Rahman Elephchild

The two most common reasons why relationship barely work can be linked to money and sex. It's either sex or money that cultivate the dispute in the initial stage. Don't take my statement for it. Make your analysis too. To make it easy, Google it!

Dating a Nigerian woman/man can be frustrating, and it can also lead to immorality which one of them is RAPE. Be calm, I will explain why courting could be annoying, and why marriage could be less frustrating. Are you getting it twisted?

Firstly, salute yourself as you have finalized the above paragraphs of your reading. My advice is free, and you might find it difficult to get elsewhere.

Now, what makes money and sex the most widespread problem among young lovers?

No doubt, most guys can’t do without thinking of sex, and women can't do without expecting a man to take care of them. In a nutshell, men want sex, while women want money to be taken care of. In a relationship, men will constantly request for sex (even the good ones) and women will always play hard to get before giving out sex, making men convince them for what they will both enjoy. Period!

What can be done to curb the conflict between sex and money?

The first question to ask yourself as a man is ”Do I need someone to enjoy sex with before marriage?” As a woman, ask yourself ”Can I cope without him giving me money before marriage?”

Those questions will make it simple for both partners to avoid unfair argument on when to have sex and when to pay for her needs during courtship. From my thorough exploration, it's difficult to strengthen a relationship with a woman (Nigerian especially) without spending on her. Honestly, it's overwhelming in my country.

It's hard to date a man that will wait till the wedding night before having sex with a woman. Even the good guys hardly wait. Sex can't be wiped out from men's reflection. Men are sex, sex is men. The best thing to do as a woman to avoid having sex before marriage is to stay single till you find a man who will meet up with your condition. To avoid assault (RAPE) in the long run, stay away from men who can't wait until the wedding night before they can enjoy intercourse with you.

As a man who is struggling, who still finds it tough to provide for a woman who can meet up with his demand (sex), the best thing to do is to work hard until you are capable to provide for her demands. With that, she have your money, and you have pleasure in rescue. Honestly, it will reduce the rate of RAPE in our modern society.

For a man who is capable to capitalize her need but find it difficult to have sex with her due to her adamant decision (no sex unless we got married), go to her parent and seek for her hand in marriage. With that, you will have more of her (sex)

Dear women, until you find a man who will honour your decision to abstain from sex till wedding night, stay single. Dear men, until you find a woman who will give you access to her pleasure room without having to convince her after every romance, stay single. Sex should be enjoyed and not endured. If a woman wants a man to take care of her (financially), she should expect that from her husband.  And if a man needs a woman to satisfy his sexual urge before marriage, he shouldn't go for women who are not willing to have sex before marriage.

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