10 SIGNS OF A GOOD PROSPECTIVE SPOUSE . by: Awoyemi Zainab Oyinkansola

 

10 SIGNS OF A GOOD PROSPECTIVE SPOUSE .

by: Awoyemi Zainab Oyinkansola

1. He posseses goals and aspirations

   His goals and apirations are in tandem with yours , through his proposed goals and aspirations, you know if he is keen on growth or prefers shortcuts, this forms an important factor to look out for in a prospective spouse .

2. Arrogancy 

A good prospective spouse does not boast about himself , brag about his achievements and what not , although , he shares some of his pursuit and carry you along in his plans but not so condescendingly .

3. A stable source of income 

   From what sustain a marriage is income and finances , you want to be sure the person you are getting married to is financially capable of taking up your responsibilities and grant you those comforts that are none negotiable to you.

4. Effective communication

    This is very germane in all relationships, talk more a life contract . You want to be sure you are able to express your feelings and ideas without being misconstrued and that there are no gaps in your communication . 

5.Beliefs 

   The signs to know a prospective spouse is that you share the same faith and beliefs , so you do not encounter problems that are better imagined than felt in your marriage .

6. Good Character

   Needless to say , Your Prospective spouse should wow you with his characters , not pretense though, but you should be so convinced of his character, that you can stand for him in some situations, character-wise , He should be endearing to you .

7. Decision Making 

   Does he carry you along in his decision making ? Chances are if he does , he'll hold your inputs highly in marriage (carrying you along is different from seeking your consents on every matter ) and thereby make a good husband .

8.Calm and straightforwardness

   He is straightforward in all affairs and avoid being shady or secretive .

9.He is Supportive of your goals and aspirations

  Chances are if he shows indifferences to your goals and aspirations, he did make a bad husband . It's an insight to deeper issues and problems and you do not want to take that plunge .

10. He isn't insensitive to your needs 

    Just as written, he isn't insensitive to your needs, you want to watch out for signs of greediness , self centeredness and unbecoming behaviors , a good prospective spouse does not exhibit such behaviors.